Blush Photography

Ultimate Wedding Guide

 


the wedding photography guidebook 

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all the tips, tricks and suggestions needed to make
your wedding photos amazing

 

I vow to always show up with my A game for you but let's be honest, we all need a little help. With some teamwork, this is how we can really take your wedding photos to the next level. Grab a glass of wine, this is a long one!
I promise, it will be worth it. 

I've created this guidebook to help share the information that I think makes a world of a difference, but remember the most important rule..... there are no rules. Shake it up and make the day yours. If a certain tradition doesn't resonate with you, scrap it.  Want to get ready together instead of seperate? I love it. Want to have a taco bar for dinner, let's fiesta. 

 

getting ready 

I'm going to sound like a broken record on this one. Lighting, lighting, lighting.

If you can, have your makeup artist set you up in front of a window. There's nothing more flattering than soft, natural light coming in through a window. Think about what is around you where you're getting ready and remove the clutter. 

Consider this when choosing the location you'll get ready in. There's not much that can be done to make a dark dirty basement look beautiful. Pick a place that has lots of space, light and minimal clutter (this goes for the guys too)! White walls and light colours work wonders. Think about the room as a blank canvas for this portion of the day. 

 

the ceremony 

This is what it's all about. The part of the day that everything is revolved around. Time to make it official! 

I'll dive into more detailed timelines below but if you're getting married outdoors, try to avoid a mid-day ceremony where the sun is beaming down from directly above. Sweat, harsh shadows and squinting - let's avoid all that.
Golden hour is your best friend, it's those last few hours before the sun sets. Everything glows and the light hits your face just right - it's natures way of airbrushing you.

Going Un-Plugged
What do you want to see when you're walking down the aisle? The faces of everyone you love, not 50 iPhones and iPads held in the air. A guest leaning into the aisle to catch their own shot can really take away from that photo of your Dad walking you in. Sadly, in our technology driven age I've found that we really have to be extra bold in reminding guests to tuck their phones away. Sometimes just a sign doesn't do it anymore. Have your officiant let them know that the photographer will share all the professional images with them (of course!) and that you request that they're present and watching with their eyes. It's a beautiful thing to see a full room totally connected to the ceremony - and disconnected from their screens - promise! 

 

timelines 

I'd love to work with you to specifically tailor this to your venue and your exact date, but generally speaking these are the timelines that will maximize your photos. It's about keeping your ceremony and portraits as close to golden hour as possible (without ending up in the dark) but remember... there are no rules. Want to flip things on their head and get married under the stars? Let's chat about how we can make that happen! 

You might be wondering, what is a first look?
It's an intimate moment set up for you and your soon to be spouse to see each other before the ceremony. In the summer I suggest staying with a traditional timeline and doing photos after the ceremony because of the extended daylight, but when the days are shorter it's much more ideal to do photos before hand!  

 

summer weddings
sunset around 8:30-9:00pm

2:30 - photography starts / getting ready photos
4:00 - ceremony
4:30 - family photos
5:00 - cocktail hour / bridal party photos
6:00 - grand entrance to reception
6:30 - dinner / speeches
7:30 - bride & groom photos

 

spring & fall weddings
sunset around 6:30-7:00pm

2:00 - photography starts / getting ready photos
3:30 - first look
4:00 - bridal party photos
4:30 - bride & groom photos
5:30 - family photos
6:00 - ceremony
6:30 - cocktail hour / reception follows

 

winter weddings
sunset around 4:30-5:00pm

12:30 - photography starts / getting ready photos
2:00 - first look
2:30 - bridal party photos
3:00 - bride & groom photos
4:00 - family photos
4:30 - candlelit ceremony
5:00 - cocktail hour / reception follows


the reception 

My goal is to use flash as little as possible. Sure, it works when it's absolutely needed, but it's my feeling that flash takes away from the ambience of a room. I want your photos to honestly represent how that moment looked through your eyes and how it felt to be there. They key to this is using only the light that is naturally available.
This is where you can help me! Make Italian String Lights (sometimes called Bistro Lights) your best friend. Candles too. Light your room up with a warm, natural glow - the more the better!


make it your own

At the end of the day, it's about you, your fiancé and your guests. It's about celebrating your love and commitment to each other and maybe throwing one hell of a party. Ask yourself, are you copying Pinterest boards or following the cookie-cutter bridal magazine checklist? What decisions are you making because your venue told you that was 'the norm'. Screw the norm. Kick your shoes off, switch it up, break some traditions and create new ones. 
I can't wait to capture it all for you.